| Careful listening
• Listening for detailed understanding
• Listening for agency, knowledge and resource
As with many approaches careful listening for
detailed understanding is vital. This listening is done with profound
respectfulness, listening for agency, knowledge and resources as
well as themes which may be significant for meaning making.
For instance, where a young person has managed
to get through a difficult time in hospital, it would be possible
to focus on what caused it to be so difficult, the effective strategies
used by the staff, phenomenology of the distress, automatic thoughts
contributing to the distress, etc. Any of these has their value,
dependent on context. With this approach priority is given to listening
focused on the agency the young person exercised and resources they
drew on in taking up what the staff offered:
- "I noticed that even though I could see your hands were
shaking and you seemed to be experiencing a lot of distress
you took up the invitation of [the nurse] to sit down and look
at possible ways of managing the anxiety you were struggling
with."
- "How did you make the decision to sit down and engage
in that conversation?"
- "What experiences have you had in the past which enabled
you to put some trust in the staff?"
- "Were you surprised at how well you were able to talk
about what you were experiencing and join [the nurse] in coming
up with strategies to manage the anxiety?"
A second example is that of a young person who
had previously described disliking treatment and wanting to be released
from compulsory admission. He told a clinician how much he was enjoying
the inpatient unit. When the clinician inquired further he said"
“I have decided to like it here so I can
go home.”
This statement was rather surprising to the clinician
and could have been dismissed as indicating the statement of liking
hospital was untrue. However, focusing on the agency involved in
making and executing this decision is more likely to bring forward
agency and resource. For instance:
- “How have you made that decision, did it come to you
in a moment or have you thought about it for a while?”
- “Was this a new idea for you or have you experience
of something similar in the past?”
- “Are you finding the liking comes easily to you or
do you have to put a lot of effort into it?”
- “How well is it working for you, are you finding it
any easier to be in hospital?"
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