| Bringing
forward values and intentions
• Discovery of intentions can surprise us
• Accessing values can enhance experience of active ‘I’
An intention is an idea that can be put into practice.
It may not be apparent. Many of us have intentions which are an
important personal resource and part of our sense of identity which
have not yet been put into practice. It is unusual to find someone
who does not hold intentions they can feel proud of, even if they
are not played out in their actions. The following quotation from
an adolescent survivor of a suicide attempt (a participant in a
qualitative study) exemplifies a situation where there is a description
of an intention to stop making suicide attempts which would not
be apparent from the behaviour described:
"If I knew what I could [do to] stop it
from happening again, believe you me, I would you know, try and
stop it. Because I mean I don't like, I mean like all my past
attempts I haven't really thought about it. It's just, you know,
I've just done it. Um, occasionally I think I have um like when
I've been drunk and depressed I've sort of set it up so that I
know that my mother's coming home, you know, to get my mother's
attention or something like that, but like when I jumped out of
the car, you know, it was just I just jumped, you know, didn't
think about it - just jumped"
Careful inquiry can bring forward intentions which
might not otherwise be apparent. For instance:
- “Over the days before you started smoking dope again,
was that your plan, or did you have an intention to stop for
longer?”
- “In saying that Mary is just lazy, what are you hoping
she will take from this?”
Many people hold values which influence the actions
they engage in but are not available in their conscious awareness.
Bringing these into consciousness can enhance sense of the ‘I’,
active in the present moment. Values (and intentions) can often
be brought forward by exploration of how a decision is made. For
instance:
“Given that you came here today because
your mum wanted you to, does that mean that you give some value
to her opinion?”
With someone who has lowered mood but stops antidepressants
because they do not want to depend on medication:
- “Does this indicate a value you place on depending on
your own internal resources?”
- “What is the history of this value in your life?”
- “How does this value affect other decisions you make?”
- “Several times during the conversation you have mentioned
not wanting to cause others harm and you have also talked about
helping the old people at work. Is caring for others something
you value?”
With a young person who says:
“I feel as if I have to take the Ritalin
(methyl phenidate) because it helps me concentrate on school work”
inquiry could focus on a sense of compulsion,
how the medication helps concentration, etc. However, agency is
more likely to be supported by bringing forward the decision to
value schoolwork:
- “Is concentrating on school work something you value?”
- “How did you come to decide this was important?”
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